As A Mom, I Canât Accept A Redemption Arc For Serena Joy On The Handmaidâs Tale

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It had been nearly three years between new episodes when the sixth and final season of The Handmaidâs Tale started airing on April 8, and it seems like a glaring understatement to say a lot has happened in the world in those three years. Specifically, in the last six months or so, a lot of whatâs happened in the U.S. has drawn inevitable comparisons to Gilead. Itâs here, at this turbulent moment in time, when we once again meet Serena Joy â only now, we may be asked to look at her through a forgiving lens for the sometimes-massive role she has played in the misfortune of so many other women and mothers.
Sheâs been an active participant in their pain. And even in her more passive moments, sheâs been complicit. Which brings us to a question that is blurring the lines between life and fiction, screen and real world: Is Serena Joy beyond redemption? Does she deserve a pass?
At the end of last season, we saw June run into Serena on the refugee train headed to Alaska. This season starts with June and Serena tiptoeing around each other on the train. If you tilt your head and squint, you might even believe theyâre just two mom friends, helping each other weather the worries and inconveniences of traveling with kids:Â Can you watch the baby while I nap? Whereâs the food cart? Does anyone have a diaper?
In focus, itâs clear that June is conflicted â when others on the train realize who Serena really is, though, they are not at all conflicted. Itâs clear that when some of the people whoâve been hurt by Serenaâs behaviors and the broader policies she has supported discover her identity, they are not ready to forgive and forget. Letting her go in grace isnât an option.
Who could really blame them?
But June and Serena have a history. Itâs an ugly, brutal history filled with hurt. Itâs also a history filled with⌠not love, but understanding maybe? That doesnât feel like the right word, yet we definitely get the sense that the reason June steps in to save Serena is because Serena is a mom, too. And her infant son, Noah, could get hurt in the melee.
Motherhood is a tether that binds people together in weird ways. To the point of fraying, it stretches our capacity for empathy. Once you become a mother to a child, some part of you becomes protective of all children and, by proxy, their moms too. Or at least thatâs how it feels for some of us.
Hereâs where I get stuck, though, both in watching the new season of The Handmaidâs Tale and in real life.
When I hear that someone realizes theyâve made a mistake, supported the wrong people, taken part in harmful rhetoric, and theyâre now on the receiving end of some of the pain they were instrumental in causing other people, my default response is empathy. I sense that familiar ball of emotion well up in my chest, and at least momentarily, I feel bad for them.
Serena seems like sheâs really trying with June. She comes off as remorseful. But is that remorse genuinely over what sheâs done and the pain sheâs caused, or is it because that pain now affects her?
Itâs a question many of us are asking ourselves every day now.
Then thereâs the fact that Serena ends up at New Bethlehem, using baby Noah practically as a marketing ploy to bring other mothers and women back to Gilead. Granted, itâs supposedly a ânewer, gentlerâ Gilead â but have we learned nothing? We canât trust Gilead. Ever. Itâs rotten to the core, no matter how much you polish its outside and call it fresh.
In the words of Maya Angelou, âWhen someone shows you who they are, believe them.â This is true for Gilead, and itâs true for people like Serena Joy. When she was suffering and scared, when she was affected by the darkness of Gilead, she acted remorseful. She spoke to June as though they were all of a sudden the same.
Then, she took the first opportunity to return to Gilead and benefit from it. I think we all know someone (or many people, unfortunately) in real life who would do the same because they never really let go of that part of themselves that condoned the bad stuff in the first place â they just didnât like feeling like they were on the other side of it.
Even though my natural inclination as a mom is to feel empathy, at this point, I donât feel bad for Serena Joy: I just feel pissed. I canât imagine campaigning for a place or a person or an ideology built on the oppression of women and girls.
Would I have acted the same way that June did on the train? Probably. Because there was a baby involved, and that baby certainly shouldnât die for the sins of his mother. But unless Serena Joy surprises us all and burns Gilead down from the inside, Iâm not buying an ounce of her newly progressive changed woman bullsh*t.
Source:Â https://www.scarymommy.com/entertainment/handmaids-tale-serena-joy-season-6-redemption-argument